Imagine this is an unbearebly hot and dull day that went sooooooo slowly that you think the world is in pause. You stuck in a traffic jam, and somebody cut you out. What will you say? If you say anything….is it possible that you don’t mean it?
Imagine you are in a crowd of friends, and the jokes getting out of control. People start saying some things that could hurt some other people….is it possible that they don’t mean it?
Maybe the don’t mean to hurt that certain somebody, but hey….why do people call names to their friends…like…goat, pig, medussa….? Trying to find an analogy to another person character is some big effort, how can somebody not mean it? I mean…what’s the point of trying that hard to even find that "name"?
Really in the world of words….can somebody said something and then say that they doesn’t mean it?
Some months ago, I went with my university team to the the North Celebes. We visited some best highschool there to conduct a student competition. We challenge them to build a tower with some bamboo sticks, as high as they can.
Somethings bother me in one of those visits. It was a teacher who explisitly call his student "a looser" everytime they don’t react to our question. He even dictated it to them: "You are all a loo…" and much to my amazement they all finished that word in a choir: "….ser". Then they all laughed. That was the most unfunny joke I’d ever heard and see. Not funny at all.
Nobody born a loser, that’s what I believe.
The strugle of a sperm to meet an ovum is more than the struggle of a marathon runner, whoever loose dies. Then the process of a zygote becoming a baby couldn’t be taken for something easy. I mean if the evolution theory is right, it normally take zillions of years from a cell to become a first human being, but it takes only 9 months in the ovarium. Imagine how much energy it takes for the "accelerated evolution"
The struggle of a baby during a birth process is something too, for it was an important moment where it must adapt almost instantly from the one world to another very different world. From living inside the womb of a mother, out to the unsteril world. From a water world of a womb, to a sheer atmosphere.
Really, can a baby that’s gone to so much fight and strugle to come into this world called as a looser?
Oh, and the outcome of the competition? The highest tower the students made in an hour was 2.7 meters.

